An industry boy in my terms means a boy who models, makes music, a comedian or bait for no real reason just out there… kind of like some of these Instagram girls. In my case, I was talking to a comedian. Wow what a comedian he was. Made me laugh all the way to the … More Why you don’t date industry boys who can’t pay for their own Nando’s
Another chapter, already? What could be worse than the first story? Well, wouldn’t you be surprised, foreal God dammit, I even surprised myself at how long this even lasted. What could be worse than the previous guy cheating on me with 6 other girls right? So, the story all begins with a twitter DM. Funny … More I played myself. I fell in the trap again. Nigerian Demon Chapter 2.
Quick note. I just want to apologize for being gone for like 4 months without saying a word. Having my life out in Cyprus where exams, partying and day to day life was consuming me up, I didn’t find the time or motivation to write to you. My own sexual life was pretty much put … More Quick Note
Dear Black Men, I don’t exactly trust you but I still love you… You see, there’s not a lot of people I can say I trust. Whether it be family, friends, boys or girls. And I’ve learnt to accept the fact that that’s okay not to trust people. We’re all human, and trust is a … More Dear Black Men,
Being the female bread winner in a relationship can be real tough and strenuous in any relationship. On this week’s episode on BKCHAT LDN the topic of discussion was ‘how much does money matter in a relationship’. Now don’t get me wrong, as I’ve grown older and mature, the years have passed by for me … More Being the female bread winner in a relationship
This was the first time I realized that Nigerian men are a complete and utter disgrace, with no respect or loyalty for women. And I had found myself involved with the worst of the worst of them. I never dated a Nigerian guy until September 2014 and prior to that I was in a one … More My first Yoruba Demon.
‘Why do you date these guys Darita? I don’t understand?’ – that’s the line I get every time I end up talking about the guy I’m currently seeing. I can’t seem to get it right. I really cant. Mr. Erectile Dysfunction was quite possibly the most entertaining and sexually revolved relationship I can consider ever … More Why I stayed for his 8 months of erectile dysfunction.
I know everyone loves a great story. A funny one too… but this one, just you wait and see. So, I was seeing this guy which I’ve known for a very long time, I’d say we were on and off for about 4 years. He was always a tedious kind of guy and I always … More I slept with your man on Valentines Day
Daddy Issues, A relationship with both father and mother is something we actually take for granted sometimes – for those who have both their parents under one roof , it may feel like it’s the best thing in the world. But for some others, not having both parents in your life is a struggle from … More A Relationship With My Father
It’s only been a few days but it feels like it’s been years, every night you shed tears. You try and get past it by assuring yourself that he just weren’t the one for you, and that he obviously didn’t love you how you loved him. But you ask yourself can you really be without … More U N T I T L E D