Why you don’t date industry boys who can’t pay for their own Nando’s

An industry boy in my terms means a boy who models, makes music, a comedian or bait for no real reason just out there… kind of like some of these Instagram girls. In my case, I was talking to a comedian. Wow what a comedian he was. Made me laugh all the way to the … More Why you don’t date industry boys who can’t pay for their own Nando’s

I played myself. I fell in the trap again. Nigerian Demon Chapter 2.

Another chapter, already? What could be worse than the first story? Well, wouldn’t you be surprised, foreal God dammit, I even surprised myself at how long this even lasted. What could be worse than the previous guy cheating on me with 6 other girls right? So, the story all begins with a twitter DM. Funny … More I played myself. I fell in the trap again. Nigerian Demon Chapter 2.

Quick Note

Quick note. I just want to apologize for being gone for like 4 months without saying a word. Having my life out in Cyprus where exams, partying and day to day life was consuming me up, I didn’t find the time or motivation to write to you. My own sexual life was pretty much put … More Quick Note

Dear Black Men, 

Dear Black Men, I don’t exactly trust you but I still love you… You see, there’s not a lot of people I can say I trust. Whether it be family, friends, boys or girls. And I’ve learnt to accept the fact that that’s okay not to trust people. We’re all human, and trust is a … More Dear Black Men, 

Why I stayed for his 8 months of erectile dysfunction.

‘Why do you date these guys Darita? I don’t understand?’ – that’s the line I get every time I end up talking about the guy I’m currently seeing. I can’t seem to get it right. I really cant. Mr. Erectile Dysfunction was quite possibly the most entertaining and sexually revolved relationship I can consider ever … More Why I stayed for his 8 months of erectile dysfunction.

U N T I T L E D

It’s only been a few days but it feels like it’s been years, every night you shed tears. You try and get past it by assuring yourself that he just weren’t the one for you, and that he obviously didn’t love you how you loved him. But you ask yourself can you really be without … More U N T I T L E D